Social Dilemma

She refused to abide by the social uncouth-like protocols. She simply didn’t understand why people are not supposed to respond to social messages by their partner’s or ex friend’s circle?! Isn’t it ill manners to do that!? So what if she is no longer in amicable terms with all those people and their associates are trying to get in touch with her, even if it is inquiries about the same people! She believes she is a different entity and should behave and respond like one rather than pricey.

Ex friends greeting each other in public - awkward & embarrassing moment for the significant other with better soft skills!

Ex friends greeting each other in public – awkward & embarrassing moment for the significant other with better soft skills!

Ignoring someone doesn’t mean you are put in a higher pedestal than them. She thinks it is just like the ostrich who thinks no one can see it once it burrows it’s head in the mud. So, even if you think you are acting as if you couldn’t care less by not responding to messages (and of course she means only the hi-hello messages, not the ‘let’s party’ kinds because that would seem like friend poaching, won’t it?) you are only projected as a sophisticated snob. Yeah, that’s what she feels.

And my! She suffered from mood swings if her closest friend compelled her to not respond such messages and just so that the person who casually messaged her does not feel bad, she refrained from doing any other activity on that site. Why? Obviously because the person at the other end can see and then understand that she is deliberately not replying! Oh! What a messy situation.

This post is reblogged from my first blog.

Stay well until next time!
Torque Earnest


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